Sunday, January 9, 2022

TRAITS OF A LEADER

 

A leader is one who eats last

A leader is one who delegates work

A leader is one who gives credit to his subordinates for his team achievement

A leader is one who takes the blame for his team’s mistakes

A leader is one who has a passion and a vision

A leader is one who has immense patience and tolerance

A leader is one who is focused and determined

A leader is one who says, “After you”

A leader is one who is always free to assist his subordinates.

A leader is one, others want to follow.

A leader is one, who is humble, Calm, Cheerful and Confident at all times.

Be blissful

S.SEKAR

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Monday, December 6, 2021

WHO IS A MAN?

 

Man is a man when he is human.

He is human when the entire mankind is his family.

Mankind is his family when the all-pervading God is his home.

God can be his home when he actually knows Him and blissfully identifies himself with Him, with the grace of a True Master who has realized him.

 

Is there a god or not? If there is, give some evidence of its existence.

Admittedly this is a difficult question to answer.

We can say God is a fact which can be approved but cannot be proved.

 

To realize God one has to read and understand Vedas and Upanishads. By this way one can get clarity about God.

Be blissful.


S.SEKAR

Contact: sekrajc@yahoo.com


 

Sunday, December 5, 2021

BE THE CHANGE YOURSELF FIRST

When we change, the world changes. The key to all change is in our inner transformation i.e. changing of our hearts and minds. We all have power to change and when we start realizing this truth we can bring forth that power anywhere, anytime in any situation. So feel that inner power within and move ahead in life."


"We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves-Buddha.”

Seek peace within, you will find peace all over. "Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.” Inner peace is the most profound wealth (DHAN). May it empower me to transform into the brightest strongest version of myself.

Be blissful.

S.SEKAR
Contact: sekrajc@yahoo.com 

Tuesday, November 2, 2021

WHAT IT TAKES TO BEING A RIGHT PERSON

Too many people are trying to find the right person instead of being the right person.


The question is who is a right person? What is the definition of a right person?


He who has the qualities of a Uttama Purusha as explained in "Bhagavad Gita" is considered a right person. One has to find the Truth behind a person being right. If you find the Truth, You'll become a Right person yourself. You try to ponder on what is written above, till you get to the Truth. Truth always Triumphs!!!

S.Sekar, B.Tech, PGDM - AIMA
LMIIChE, LMIAWPC, LM FRP Institute, Chennai, India
Email: sekrajc@yahoo.com

Blogsite: ssekar.blogspot.com 

Saturday, October 2, 2021

END OF LIFE AND REALISATION OF TRUTH

 

“Her husband calls her when he came to know he is going to die. Like a Bikhu Monk (Myanmar, Tibet) he lies down on the floor folding his hands one above the other on his chest. Within minutes the Soul (Atma) separates from him and leaves through his head which she sees. His Kundalini chakra is opened which is a strange happening. She looks surprised and she is also frightened by the sight. She realizes then her mistake. Her thoughts about her husband got changed instantaneously. She got convinced he is a Spiritual person. Something like a cloud was covering her face and was like a veil in front of her whenever she came across him at all points of time throughout her life. She tells her daughters who were by her side at that point of time, that She had made a Mistake about her husband and concluded that it was her mistake only. What she thought and mistook about her husband during his living years was itself a mistake. It is a mystery behind her husband whom she has missed to understand when he was alive. This is her take that her life was at stake.”’  

S.SEKAR

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Monday, September 6, 2021

AGEING

Age is an issue of Mind over Matter. If You Don’t Mind, it Does not Matter” Mark Twain.

The above statement means “The process of getting old is a question of mind over matter: If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter”.

If I feel good, I will be good. If I feel bad, I will be bad. All is in the state of our Mind. If I have Mana Suddhi (Purity/ Cleanliness of mind) then I feel Happy all the time and I feel Fulfilled. True Happiness is like finding yourself.  Self-actualization is a process of discovering who you are, who you want to be and paving the way to happiness by doing what brings to YOU the most meaning and contentment to your life in the long run.

Psychologist and author David Weeks said a few decades ago “ageing definitely appears to be related to mood”. In his book, Secrets of the Super young: The scientific reasons some people look ten years younger than they really are and how you can, too!, he says the mantra to looking younger is being fit, having a Zest for life and being continuously interested in everything.

Middle age doesn’t look the way it used to. It’s become impossible to play the guessing game right when it comes to age these days. If you look stressed, drag yourself out of the bed on an everyday basis, you will look older. “The secret of those who look super young is that they live their lives to the highest potential – play a sport, habitually take care of their bodies and have a super positive outlook towards life”. Great stamina, takes years off a person’s face.

In fact, according to emerging medical research, if you look younger than someone of equal age, you may live longer than they will. And, if you look older than your age, medical science now tells us, you have a greater chance of dying younger! “How we think, work, spend our time, sleep, and even our approach towards ageing all play a vital role in how old we feel”. People who are curious, problem solvers and pro-active, look and feel younger. When we eat right, exercise on a daily basis and are mindful of our surroundings, we look younger.

“Your own perception of how old you feel can make a huge difference. More than age, it’s the attitude that makes you look younger. There is also more acceptance of ageing. Our generation is ageing more gracefully and adapting different options to look younger”. People above 50 are bungee-jumping, getting married, travelling the world and pursuing their heart’s desires fervently. Healthy lifestyle changes, exercise, yoga and de-stress activities are reversing the ageing process. People may be advancing age-wise, but getting old, as we knew it, is over.

Age is a myth today. Everyone wants to be young forever, and is working hard towards it.”

Have a nice day.

Be blissful

S.Sekar

Contact: sekrajc@yahoo.com 

Monday, August 2, 2021

DREAM EXPLAINED

Dream is an experience that comes to a person in his dream. It is unique to the dreamer. Each dream is an experience by itself. One cannot start the stop watch and get ready for the dream to happen as it is not possible to create a dream at your own will. One does not have the freewill to dream, as it occurs by itself.

 

A dream is never understood as a dream, by the dreamer, in his dream. It is understood as a dream only when he wakes up. It means knowing what he was unaware of. Dream for a dreamer is a reality, but cannot be shared with other members of the family. It is a reality only for the dreamer. It is called subjective reality. In the same way, our life is also like a dream, which seems so real, but understood only when awakened (when we become aware). The moment one wakes up (awareness sets in), it becomes an objective reality. Ignorance of the objective reality is the cause of subjective reality called a dream. Being unaware of the surroundings is Dream.

 

Surroundings are objective reality. This objective reality is also called as another type of Swapna (Dream). This must be caused by another ignorance (another sleep). In the eyes of Vedanta we are all sleeping. This is called Paramarika sathyam (Absolute Reality).

 

The above explanation about dream is given in “Tathva Bodha” text which is a mental preparation of the Self before one makes an attempt to read the Holy Scripture “Bhagavad Gita”.

 

Be Blissful.

 

S.SEKAR

Contact: sekrajc@yahoo.com

 

Perseverance is the hard work you do after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did ~ Newt Gingrich

 

Focus On: Action not intension

Result not effort; Outcomes not activities.