Sunday, December 9, 2018

Why Worry. Learn to come out of worry.

We have got responsibility about our family and we should take care of them. But we should not worry. Caring is our duty. Worrying is not our duty. Lord Krishna says in CH VI of Bhagavad Gita that worrying people has a behavior of Asuri Sampat. The only way to avoid our worries is to surrender to God. The future of my family will be decided by their Karma. Their Adhirshta Punyam and Papam will influence their future. My prayer to Bhagavan is, “O Lord give me the strength and the capacity to go through whatever I get according to my karma palan”. A baby does not worry about the future. A true Bhakta and a Gnani plans for the future. They do not worry about the future. Avadhuta gives an example of a householder who is of worrying type. This is an indication of the absence of Bhakti and gnanam. A Gnani has transcended the 3 Gunas (Sattva, Rajas and Tamas – or balance, activity, and inertia – which comprise the Prakriti or sentient and insentient nature).

Avadhuta Dathrathreya makes a beautiful statement. Among the entire human race only two groups are happy. First is the Children and the second is Children like Adults. All the others are always worry ridden. Every Gnani is soaked in the syrup of highest ananda (paramananda). A child who is ignorant is blissful. Atma Gnanam is required for enjoyment. Worldly knowledge without Self knowledge will give you only imagining capacity.

One of the topics in spirituality is to spend some time in seclusion. Learning to spend some time without the company of any person will be helpful when the time comes. One of the spiritual sadana is to spend some time with yourself. You can go for a walk alone for some time. You can spend some time alone in an ashrama for 2 to 3 days. I went to Ramanasramam in thiruvannamalai in July 2016 and spent three full days from 04th July to 6th July 2016. We have to deliberately spend some time alone to fight the problem of loneliness. A sanyasi should learn to live alone. Ekaki chare is a sadana. It can avoid several problems of relationship. This is advised because one of the expressions of Samsara is fear, worry and a sense of insecurity. Once in a while you start to feel lonely. Loneliness is an expression of samsara especially as we grow old. I call it a FEDEREL problem. FE is Fear. As we grow old fear increases. DE is depression. Another indication for depression is MBBS. Life becomes Meaningless (M), Burdensome (B), Boring (B), and a Struggle (S). You tell others that life is not good. RE is regret. You play the past at regular intervals. L is loneliness. We feel that the younger generation does not understand us. Loneliness is a serious expression of Samsara. We try to escape from our problem. Moksha is defined as being comfortable with myself. In life, people will come into our life and people will go from our life. Like a train journey people will get into the train and people will get out of the train when the destination comes. Even our relatives will also go away. Our children have their own family and will be with their family. Spouse also cannot be all the time together with you. We should be ready to live alone even without our spouse and come to terms with life.

S.Sekar
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2 comments:

  1. Thanks Ramaa Venkatadri for your nice comments. I am happy and will continue to write my ideads on Spirituality.

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